Imagine having a happy home environment full of sexy vibes. A safe, strong Masculine presence for you to relax into.
Think of your partner. Now picture him as your ally, standing beside you. Someone you can turn to for emotional support.
If you have children, they see a happy Mamma and Dadda who are not only loving towards one another, but united as the Hierarchy of the family.
What is a fulfilling relationship anyway? Simply put, its when you have a deep understanding of each others needs and you consistently meet those needs on a daily basis. This results in a fulfilling relationship. So it’s not luck! It’s actually very strategic!
Your ‘enemy’ is actually your greatest resource in life. They are your friend your confidant your Significant other. Now I want to be clear, I am not talking to the Women who are with a man who uses physical violence and aggression. I’m talking to the Women who are with the kind of man who deep down is a good guy, but yet you continue to bicker with him on a regular basis. There may have even been infidelity there at some point within the relationship – because sometimes, good people can make really stupid choices which hurt those they love the most.
It’s important to know that Relationships can and do survive and thrive after infidelity.
When helping clients with their relationship, I use Human Needs Psychology to help them understand why certain behaviours have been present within the relationship and how they can better meet their own as well as their partners needs in a more loving, respectful way.
This allows for each person to be 100% responsible for their own part within their relationship, whilst setting firm boundaries, rebuilding trust, intimacy and really taking the relationship to a place that is much stronger and much more passionate than before.
It doesn’t matter how stale or desperate a relationship seems. It can be turned into a highly passionate, committed and fulfilling relationship.